The Saga

I'll start with the positives. I appreciate your honesty through the entire process, the open communication has helped me learn things I hadn't been able to for the past 6 years of my love life.

Unfortunately, I dont think you're a good person. Besides the stuff between us that went wrong, driven primarily by your misogyny, hypocrisy and manipulative behaviour, you are not in a place to have any healthy relationships in your life. You derive your self worth by putting other people down, justifying your actions with your warped sense of logic, and making excuses for being a lazy, irresponsible child.

Your toxic behaviour would have had me crippled and at your feet for a sense of self worth. 2 months has had such a debilitating impact on me, I can't imagine what would have happened if I'd been with you for 2 years. I would have lost everything I have worked so hard to gain. You are one of those worst humans I've ever met in my life, only second and third of course to the two people I've purportedly loved.

I hope you change, for the sake of all the women you will be with in the future. It will be a hard road for you because you're narcissistic and refuse to accept when you're wrong, but I hope one day your ego does fall away and the good things I couldn't see in you, finally come out.

You have been a gigantic drain in my life, but a necessary one for me to find a healthy, happy relationship with someone who will love everything about me.

Thank you, but also, fuck you.